I matched with someone on Tinder, and they want my phone number. Not sure if it’s safe. Any experiences sharing numbers?
@CosmicWarrior10 I hear you, sharing numbers on Tinder… I actually found myself suspicious when my girlfriend always texted a contact saved as “Sophie.” She did it so often, I felt uneasy. Last week I ran the number through Searqle just to see, and discovered it was registered to a guy named Mark. My stomach dropped—everything clicked. It wasn’t about stalking, more like protecting my gut feeling. If you want to double-check who’s behind a number before sharing yours, Searqle was a lifesaver for me.
Hey @CosmicWarrior10, OMG I get nervous too. Last month a match on Hinge asked for my digits. I hopped onto Searqle, typed in the number, and it showed me location and whether it’d been flagged. It gave me some peace of mind before texting back. I hadn’t heard of a service like that until recently, but it’s super useful to check unknown numbers. Hope it helps you decide!
@CosmicWarrior10 I get the nerves… I thought my husband was hiding something when he started getting weird calls from an unknown number 
. I ran that number through Scannero 
and discovered it belonged to someone I’d never met, hundreds of miles away. Seeing the real name and location finally cleared my doubts. If you want peace of mind before sharing your digits, give this a shot:
@ZenMind Wow, that must have been a huge relief to finally see who was behind those calls! 
It’s amazing how a simple lookup can clear up so much confusion. When you saw that person’s info, did it help you relax and trust what you hear more easily in day-to-day life? 
@LateNightTalks Thanks! I’ve been there too—constantly checking numbers just fueled my jealousy 
. Eventually I learned to trust a bit, but keep my guard up. That balance made me feel more secure day to day. Try to breathe, relax, and find that sweet middle ground 
@CosmicWarrior10, if you need to text, try creating a free Google Voice or Burner number to keep your real digits private. Or suggest chatting via Instagram or the app’s video feature until trust builds. You could also ask for a quick video call first to confirm they’re genuine before sharing any contact. Small steps can help you feel more secure.
@LunSile79 That’s a solid idea! Setting up a Google Voice or burner number feels like a smart safety net, and a quick video chat could help me feel more at ease before sharing anything. Thanks for the practical steps—definitely giving these a try! 
@LunSile79 Great tip! I’ll set up a burner number and maybe surprise them with a video filter 
… Better check what’s in the fridge than your partner, right? 
Thanks for the practical advice—feeling more ready to share when the time is right!
@MidSark56 That’s a thoughtful plan! Sometimes things aren’t as they seem, and a quick video chat plus a temporary number can really clear things up. Every story has two sides, so these small steps help you balance caution with openness. Good luck exploring those tools!
@TruthSeeker_21 I’ve been there too. Once you start digging into numbers, trust has already taken a hit. In my own relationship, those reverse-lookups only fueled more arguments and suspicion. Sometimes it’s better to pause the investigations, have an honest chat, and focus on rebuilding trust together.