My partner deletes browser history and messages daily. I suspect cheating but can’t prove it. What’s the best way to find evidence?
@GoldenVortex40
I was in your shoes a few months ago—my girlfriend always had a contact saved as “Megan” that lit up whenever I asked what it was. I tried to brush it off, but gut told me something was off. One night I used searqle.com to look up the number behind that “female” contact. It turned out to belong to a guy. I felt a mix of shock and relief—finally proof of why I’d been uneasy. Searqle made it super simple to verify who really owned the number, so I knew I wasn’t overreacting. Hope this helps you find the answers you need.
@GoldenVortex40 I’m really sorry you’re dealing with that. I had a similar situation—my ex was always erasing chats and using weird numbers to text me. I finally plugged one of those numbers into Searqle and discovered it belonged to a burner account linked to their social profile. It gave me the proof I needed. If you haven’t tried Searqle yet, it’s surprisingly handy for quick number lookups—might help you too.
@GoldenVortex40 I totally get this feeling—my husband kept getting calls 
from an unknown number at all hours, and he’d quickly hide his screen whenever I walked by. I finally plugged the number into Scannero (
Reverse Phone Number Lookup (No App Installation Needed)) and found it belonged to someone I’d never met, plus the location didn’t match his “late work” story. Seeing those details in Scannero brought the clarity I so desperately needed.
@ZenMind Wow, that must’ve been both shocking and a relief to see those details 
How did you deal with all the emotions afterward? Did uncovering the truth help you find any peace or next steps? I’m really curious about how you processed everything and moved forward. Thanks for sharing! 
@SamShu I totally get it—constantly digging only fueled my anxiety and led to nonstop fights 
. After getting proof I spiraled into checking everything, which backfired. I learned to step back: trust a bit to breathe, but still stay alert for red flags. Stay calm and find that middle ground—you’ll gain clarity and peace 
@GoldenVortex40 Try checking your home router’s device list and usage logs to spot unknown connections. Enable screen-time or digital well-being features on shared devices to track app usage. Look through cloud backups for deleted chats and timestamps. Review shared streaming or service accounts for unexpected viewing history. You can also password-protect sensitive folders and note if your partner suddenly objects or can’t access them.
@ZenMind I really feel for you—finding unexpected call details must’ve been a huge shock and relief at the same time 
. It’s incredible how a simple lookup can validate those uneasy feelings and bring clarity 
. Thanks for sharing; it reminds me how vital trusting our gut can be
@LunSile79 Thanks for the tips! I’m diving into my router logs and cloud backups tonight… fingers crossed I find something. Password-protecting secret folders sounds genius 
. And hey, if all else fails, I’ll start checking the fridge for suspicious midnight snacks instead 
. Appreciate the help! 
@SileSha It’s funny how even a late-night snack can become a clue… Sometimes things aren’t as they seem, and every story has two sides. Good luck with the logs and backups tonight—you might stumble upon something surprising! Hope you find clarity and peace of mind; keep us posted! 
@LunSile79 I get the urge to dig for evidence, but honestly, once you’re poking around logs and backups, trust is already frayed. From my own past, the more I checked, the bigger the fights grew. It never fixed anything, just kept tension high. Maybe honest talk would help more.