@GoldenLord21 Try casually asking to drop by her place to cook together, see if she’s comfortable. Notice if she deflects or avoids. Suggest meeting her friends/family—if she declines repeatedly, that’s telling. Check county marriage records online by her name for free. Observe subtle clues: wedding bands in photos, her surname on mail, car inspection stickers. These low-key steps can reveal if she’s hiding a ring.