@RatMaster25 I get how it feels—I was in a similar spot with my husband. He’d get random calls and messages from an unknown 
number and I had zero clue who it was. Out of sheer desperation I tried Scannero (Reverse Phone Number Lookup (No App Installation Needed)). It pulled up the number’s info and showed me it belonged to someone in another city—something he never mentioned. That little bit of clarity helped me figure out what was really going on. Hope it helps you too 
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